Romantic messages those can be sent to propose a girl
While some of us have all the guts to propose to our girl on top of our lungs, others may jump out of their skin just on the thought of it. You must also know the pros and cons of proposing a girl for marriage. For guys a pretty face may be all it takes to say “dayymmson, I am in love with that girl”, but for a girl her emotions play a greater role than her eyes. So be tactful while asking her out. Since you are doing it on texts, you can take your time to word it perfectly before you hit the send button.
Juts a heads up, most of the girls, when they look for a guy, have marriage in their minds, or if not marriage, a long term relationship, for sure. So, look before you leap!
Now that you have looked into it and you can say: my feelings are profound enough to propose, this article will help you what to do next.
INITIATE THE CONVERSATION
The first thing that you need to do is to initiate the talk. The way to go about is with light, playful banter, tease her. Get her smiling and laughing. Recall something you guys did together, a party or whatever to make that affinity get going.
TEXT AT A PARTICULAR TIME
Try to know her routine and text her only when she is free. This way she would be free to text you. Of course if he does text you back, it means she is interested and with time you will see she will be warmer and more indulged into the conversation. This would make her expect your texts at that particular time, which is what you want.
DO NOT COMMUNICATE ALL THE TIME
You need her to be excited to see your text not bugged. Do not text or call her up all the time, but do not disappear on her. Message her enough so she would think of you when you do not/cannot text her.
BE INTERESTED IN HER DAILY LIFE
Trust me this is a great way to start a conversation. Just ask her how her day was; what was the highlight etc? Follow up by a light banter. You could even mention some memory of you two together. This would help her open up to you.
FLIRT BUT NOT AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY
Do not keep at the rapport stage for too long. There is no point in talking and talking without going anywhere. Remember it is a means to an end. So keep it in your mind at all times. Flirt when you can. It is a good way to keep her energy up, but do not over do it. She might get bored.
AVOID TEXTING A FEW DAYS BEFORE YOU ARE GOING TO PROPOSE TO HER
Her anticipation, and at the same time frustration, for you not texting her even though everything seemed fine in your last conversation, will make her an extra notch happier once you pop the question. Which is the best deal for you, since the happier she is, the faster she will be to say ‘Yes’. You are welcome!
IT IS OKAY TO BE CHEESY
While girls like gentlemen, we do have a thing for cheesy pick up lines (Disclaimer: do not try this the very first time you meet her). Nevertheless, it is only cute once we know you are not a hard core shabby lad, which means use it only once you know her well. The fact that you want to ask her out means that you know her well enough, so sending one of those “baby will you be my jalebi” type pickup lines might as well earn you her consent.
DO NOT BE SLOPPY
Even though there is not a wrong way to text you girl, do not be too casual. Firstly, it is not cool. Secondly, it might make her not take you seriously. So make it your best shot. Keep it straight and simple, just go: “thought, I’d say hi”. Keep the conversation open and wait for what she has to say.
ASK HER INDIRECTLY
Be tactful; ask her in directly. Initiate the text by asking what she is up to? When she asks you back, just tell her that you were helping a friend pick a shirt for his date. Or make it aou yourself, ask her, “wanted to go eat with some good company, know any? If she is interested she might as well suggest her own name, even better.
OVER A CUP OF COFFEE
Use ‘over the cup of coffee’ trick. For instance, Girl: “watch doing’?” You: “writing a paper.” Girl: about what? You: “something I can only tell you over a cup of coffee.” So just make it about a cup of coffee.
GET HER “OFF THE FENCE”
If you are positive then be gutsy. Tell her “I know you like me and I like you too. What are we doing about it?” This will get her off the fence, like I said. Plus since you are positive, it is likely you will get yourself a date.
BOLLYWOOD SONGS IS YOUR REFUGE
While this may sound a bit unrealistic, but don’t tell me that no one has ever used it to give a love hint to their crush. Just don’t! If you think you are too cool for Bollywood, just turn a song into poetry. Type it in a text and send it.
MAKE PLANS FOR THE DATE
Now that she has said yes, congrats, start planning the date. If you know her interests plan it accordingly. The more appealing the date is, more the chance that she will say yes. Moreover, you will be more confident in what you intend to do than saying, “let’s hang out”. Your date will also be impressed to know that you have put so much thought into it. Handle the logistics, figure out where to meet and who is picking up whom?
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Once that is decided, it is time to say that you are looking forward to the date and that you are eager to see her.
|Listen on the gut.
Do not ask out a girl if your gut says no
|If your gut is not helping.
Take your time and dig it out of her
|HEADSUP||THE TYPE OF TEXTS|
|Once you are sure of it, Initiate the talk||Use cheesy pick up lines. You will be good|
|Pick a time to text her. Let her miss your texts||Do not get carried away. Do not be sloppy|
|Do not text all the time. Text only when she is free||Be indirect. She will get the cue|
|Show interest in her routine||Turn everything if into a date by saying: “over a cup of coffee?”|
|Flirt, but not always||If you think she won’t pick the cue, just be direct|
|Let her anticipate. Avoid texting a few days before you are about to propose to her||Give it some Bollywood tadkaa. Always work.|
| Now that you she has agreed to your proposal.
Seal the deal with a wonderful date
Use the above tricks; you will definitely get yourself a date and who knows the next thing you might be looking for is, how to plan a wedding!